Friday, July 18, 2008

“Help others but don’t make them feel you are helping them; don’t make beggars out of them...”
~ Anonymous

15 comments:

Keshi said...

Agreed!

HELP is not a means of RECOGNITION.

Keshi.

KP! said...

well said mate!

Hiren said...

@keshi -> Precisely ... those who help with the aim of recognition are helping themselves and not the others ...

Hiren said...

@kp -> thanks bro !!! and wats happen to your blog? you removed all the posts??? phari thi kai low period chalu thai gayo che ke ? hopefully it will get over soon ...

Solitaire said...

What do you call those who make beggars out of those who have not even cried for help just because they think they have given?

Hiren said...

@solitaire -> I wouldn't even bother calling them anything at all ... :) no wait ... how about

self-centered
insensitive
callous
boastful
narcissistic

KP! said...

@hiren..naah dude, busy with work still trying to find new template for blog, cant seem to find anything, will have it up and running by this weekend hopefully.

ceedy said...

I will only add this - you dont have to make them feel that you are helping them - sure

but at the same time you have to be careful that you are not overdoing it - to an extent where you make the other person handicap and he/she cant fend for oneself...

Some people call this attitude of mine selfish - some call it prudence - I just say this - if I can do it so can you/he/she...

Hiren said...

@kp -> m glad to hear that !!!

Hiren said...

@ceedy -> 16 aane sachhi baat kahi hai tune :)

Help others but dont make dependents out of them ...

@ if I can do it so can you/he/she -
not always ... but I do agree with the essence of your comment ... and prudence is my VERDICT :)

ceedy said...

*not always*

should I take it as a compliment ;)

Hiren said...

@ceedy -> lol ... yep that was my precise intent :)

*~*{Sameera}*~* said...

True!

It's better not to give rather than giving half-heartedly or pompously.

Hiren said...

@Sameera -> yes .... the intent behind helping should be only and only HELP ...

Solitaire said...

I like those adjectives Hiren. Now I know what some people are.